Friday, August 21, 2015

“Motivating the Unmotivated...with HorsePower!”





Mo-ti-va-tion
/,mota’vaSHan/
Noun
The driving force by which humans achieve their goals


I remember at a corporate meeting a few years back when the speaker said:
“A manager is not responsible for motivating the team…he can lead them…but a person’s motivation comes from within.”  I’ll let that sink in…..
Then think about the statement: “Motivation is a choice, not a symptom.”  So true.

Lately my audiences have been the managers of lots of young people – millennials – and the topic always comes up that their difficult to motivate and keep happy. Yep…it is true that these talented young people are wired differently and keeping them vibrant and enthusiastic is a special skill.  However, that frustrated manager has the opportunity to instill a very important lesson for their young professionals to learn for their careers and their personal lives … “Motivation is a choice, not a consequence.”

Everyone gets disappointed with something at work.  A new graduate might feel that they're not growing or learning from the job - that it’s taking too long to move up.  A middle manager might be fed up being “the cheese” between a demanding boss and team.  A senior manager might be frustrated with the lack of growth, results and overall resistance to change. An entrepreneur might be frustrated with their growth and demands from investors.  Maybe you dislike someone in the office or can’t stand your annoying boss. The scenarios can go on and on…

The important lesson is that becoming unmotivated because of whatever is frustrating you is a mistake! 
Motivation is a choice, not a consequence…you have a choice!

·      You can start taking control of your personal motivation by leaning into your work.  Be a positive contributor and team player who solves  issues!
·      When you get your hands dirty you learn more and that’s motivating!
·      If your contribution has solved a big problem the doors open for advancement!
·      Never, Ever burn bridges!  People you’ve worked with will remember you.  They might even become your clients!
·      Take charge of your future and career – don’t wait for someone else to give you a break!

Remember… You can’t light someone else’s fire… but you can create the conditions for that fire to burn brightly…with HorsePower!

Betti


 

Friday, August 7, 2015

Achievement with Purpose, Power and Passion

What's your definition of achievement, success and winning? What's the difference? What's important to you? What's your plan to achieve success? And, what's horsepower got to do with realizing personal and professional achievement and success? 
 


Live the moment!
The more present we are, the more aware we will be in real time, making us more sensitive and responsive in our lives. "Feel the rhythm, the action, be aware, make adjustments…and ride every stride"!

Love the moment!

Enjoy and focus on what you're doing. Learn to be patient and put in the time, dedication and intensity to make it worthwhile. Make haste slowly!

Relinquish the past!
"Don't look back". Looking back is detrimental. It throws you off balance, breaks concentration, creates doubts…and steals time from the future!

Visualize you're dreams!

An inspiring catalyst to live proactively. If you do what you enjoy, you're going to do it well! Add passion and persistence as your "Success with HorsePower" wheel drives towards your future goals. 

Move into your future!
It's your life's plan – you control the reins. So, now is the time to start riding into the future that you've wanted. Envision your future, learn from the past, live in the moment and succeed with horsepower!  

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Monday, August 3, 2015

Communication Differences between Men and Women in the Workplace!



Recently I gave a two hour keynote presentation on “Communication Differences between Men and Women in the Workplace”!  The audience loved it and have already started applying some of the techniques - improve listening - understanding each other - appreciate the others diversity - and utilize the different strengths in a team to realize success!

This was a very interesting, fun and enlightening time with the audience! 
Here are just a few of the highlights we discussed...

The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that they don’t listen.
The most expressed complaint men have about women is that they talk too much and want to change them!

There is no “best” communication style for all workplace interactions.  Women have the edge in collaborative environments and men seem to take charge more readily!

To a woman, good listening skills include making eye contact and reacting visually to the speaker.  To a man, listening takes place with a minimum of eye contact and almost no verbal feedback!









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