Before we go further, take
a few moments and write down 5 of the most outstanding adjectives that describe
you. Don’t be modest – give yourself
credit!
Now, write down 5
adjectives that describe you at your worst…and don’t go easy on yourself…be
honest!
So which one
is the real you?
Read below and take the reins to discover more about
you…your leadership style and how better to work with people!
Ride Every
Stride with HorsePower!
The answer is both!
Most of us don’t often feel
like our best selves…and are not keen on acknowledging our worst selves. True
leaders need real self-awareness – a fearless willingness to look at what
motivates their behavior, and to recognize the impact they have on those they
lead...particularly when it’s destructive.
Each of us can be pushed
into negative responses when pressured, threatened or confronted. We can be triggered! But we don’t have to
fire!
The more aware we are of
our feelings, motivations and reactions - the better we are at managing
ourselves – and the more successful we will be!
In all honesty, I
completed the exercise above…and was proud of the first 5 adjectives! Then I became embarrassed
with the last 5 because I knew that those “quick, reactive actions” affected
those around me. As uncomfortable and
vulnerable as it makes me feel – I’m now trying to think before taking action…and
make a choice about how to act, rather than simply reacting!
The better we understand
and manage ourselves, the happier and more successful we will become – in every
aspect of our lives!
So here’s to
embracing all those adjectives that make you special!
Ride on with
self-awareness and be in total control of your reins!
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